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Twelve books.
One long conversation.

Forgiveness is older than any one tradition. The books here come from Christian liberation theology, Buddhist insight practice, the Truth and Reconciliation tradition, restorative justice, and the hard Jewish question of whether some things can be forgiven at all. Each one has been reread on the site at least once.

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The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World

Desmond Tutu and Mpho Tutu · 2014

Christian / restorative justice

The Anglican archbishop who chaired South Africa's Truth and Reconciliation Commission, with his daughter, on a four-step practice of forgiveness — the closest thing the site has to a how-to manual.

Jesus and the Disinherited

Howard Thurman · 1949

Christian / Black liberation

The Black mystic theologian who mentored Martin Luther King, writing about Jesus as the wisdom-tradition for the dispossessed — foundational and short.

God of the Oppressed

James H. Cone · 1975

Christian / Black liberation

The defining text of Black liberation theology — the college-grad anchor for the site's faith-and-justice frame, and the harder Christian reckoning with forgiveness under oppression.

The Third Reconstruction: How a Moral Movement Is Overcoming the Politics of Division and Fear

William J. Barber II and Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove · 2016

Christian / Black liberation

Moral Mondays and the Poor People's Campaign — Black liberation theology applied to current organizing on poverty and economic justice.

Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living

Krista Tippett · 2016

Multi-faith

The On Being host gathers interviews with rabbis, Buddhist teachers, Christian contemplatives, and scientists on the practice of forgiveness, repair, and attention. The site's multi-faith editorial voice in one volume.

Gilead

Marilynne Robinson · 2004

Christian / literary

An aging Iowa Congregationalist minister writing to his young son about grace, grievance, and the long work of forgiving an old friend. The novel the site references most often.

Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness

Sharon Salzberg · 1995

Buddhist

The American insight-meditation teacher's foundational text on Metta — the Buddhist practice underwriting the site's lovingkindness module.

Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha

Tara Brach · 2003

Buddhist

American psychologist and Buddhist teacher on letting go of self-judgment as a precondition to forgiving anyone else. The internal half of the work.

Forgive and Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don't Deserve

Lewis B. Smedes · 1984

Christian / Protestant

The Calvin College ethicist's plain-language guide — the most-read mainline-Protestant forgiveness book of the last half-century, and still the entry point for many readers.

Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life

Karen Armstrong · 2010

Multi-faith

The former Catholic nun and comparative-religion scholar on building a compassion practice that draws from Buddhism, Christianity, Judaism, Islam, and Confucianism without flattening them.

The Sunflower: On the Possibilities and Limits of Forgiveness

Simon Wiesenthal · 1969

Jewish / multi-faith

A Holocaust survivor's question — should he have forgiven a dying SS soldier? — followed by responses from rabbis, imams, monks, and writers. The hardest book on this shelf, and the most honest about forgiveness's limits.

Changing Lenses: Restorative Justice for Our Times

Howard Zehr · 1990

Christian / restorative justice

The Mennonite criminologist whose work seeded the modern restorative-justice movement — what forgiveness looks like as policy and community practice, not just feeling.